Have you heard of “the 3 minutes rule”?
If more people use this rule a lot of conflict and pain would be avoided in the world, and don’t worry it’s pretty straightforward.
What I’m going to say is something this person can fix in less than 3 minutes?
If not, just skip it
What do we mean by this?
Does this person have lipstick on their teeth? Is her bra strap showing up? (with VZLush this will never be a problem 😉) then say it, help them out. But if it is something about her/his weight/ stretch marks/ pimples.
Words can be like knives, we never know the battles other people are fighting for. So let’s be more kind with our words.
This world needs more kind people, let’s break the horrible habit of commenting about others' bodies. Always choose kindness!
And last but not least repeat after us:
Everyone I meet is fighting a battle I know nothing about.